We have all been in situations where something has gone wrong in our lives and we know that nothing is ever going to be the same again.
Maybe you have lost a child, or you have lost someone that you love. Maybe your career ended, and you had depended on the job or worse yet, maybe you or someone that you were close to had a terminal illness that left you feeling that there was no hope.
Have you ever been in a situation where you felt that life was no longer good? You had things go wrong before but you were able to bounce right back, but now all of a sudden you feel that there is nothing you can do to see life positively anymore.
Why Me?
When things go wrong, we all want to know why it is happening to us. We want to know why we are being tortured and why we have to deal with hard situations.
When we think “why me?” we are allowing ourself to be out of control. We have to get control back and we can do this by saying, “What will happen next?” Things happen and things go wrong. There are accidents and deaths and things going on all around us.
We have to slow down and learn to be resilient in what life throws at us.
Be Thankful
The hardest time to be thankful is when things are going wrong. When you go through something devastating, it can be hard to know what good things are happening in your life.
Instead of talking about what happened, be thankful that things weren’t worse. Know that you are lucky that life is still there and that there are some good things that are going on for you.
No matter what life throws at you, there is always something that you can be thankful for. Say these things out loud and let the world know that you are being positive.
Stop Blaming Yourself and Others
It is easy to blame someone when you are hurting. You might want to blame yourself or the person that you are upset with or for.
Blame causes there to be more hurt and it makes it harder to let things go. It makes you feel anger and it causes you to have negativity in your life.
Let things go and do not blame others.
Fear and Sadness
Never let fear and sadness take over your life. This is hard to say when you are going through grief, but you have to learn to let things go and move on in your life.
You must learn to show confidence and to get past your worries. Every time you wonder what is going to happen next, you let fear fill your life. You can get to the point where fear overtakes you and you always expect bad things to happen.
As you become more confident in life, you will see that things will go wrong but you will stop worrying and being so afraid. If you have fear, fake that you don’t until you become strong.
Don’t Give Up
You cannot give up. You must learn to move on no matter what happen sin your life. Once you keep moving forward, you will see that you are stronger than you knew. You will see that things can change for the better and that life can move on, even in hard times.
No matter what you are going through in your life, never give up. Just know that things will get better and do not let life hold you back.
